Comment yesterday, Margaret, about Colorado man’s experience at Loyola Academy in ‘80s:
Sorry, that doesn’t ring true to me at all. He . . . should have confided in his own confessor or another priest about the situation and asked for advice (assuming that there was some normal priest available).
Etc. Followed by comment, Daniel T:
Margaret–interesting thought. However, it’s very clear that you didn’t spend any time at the Academy during those years and are not in the mindset of a young man attending Loyola in the late 80s.. Unfortunately, you have to be there to know it.
What of the ‘60s?
Wilton Skiffington — Chicago Tribune – Thursday, November 20, 2003:
A former student at Loyola Academy in Wilmette filed a lawsuit Wednesday against the Jesuit religious order, which runs the school, accusing a teacher of molesting him in 1962.
Lou Franchi, who said Rev. Wilton Skiffington repeatedly abused him when Franchi was an upperclassman at Loyola, is the third former student to file suit since August over alleged abuse at Loyola. The incidents allegedly took place at least 30 years ago. . . . .
Franchi said that while the abuse was taking place, his parents found an explicit letter from Skiffington on their son’s dresser. Franchi said he has no recollection of the letter but was told it referred to “my beautiful body.” He has incomplete memories of the abuse, he said.
His parents turned the letter over to school officials, and Skiffington was immediately transferred to a parish in San Diego, Franchi said. . . . .
Donald McGuire — Chicago Tribune, February 24, 2006:
A jury found Rev. Donald McGuire, a well-known Chicago Jesuit, guilty late Thursday of molesting two teenage Loyola Academy students in Wisconsin in the 1960s. . . . .
During closing arguments Thursday, defense attorney Gerald Boyle tried to paint the two accusers as opportunists who were trying to cash in on a civil lawsuit filed in Illinois against the Jesuits.
“They want money,” Boyle said repeatedly. . . . .
Skiffington was besotted with his adolescent, as was Archbishop Weakland with his somewhat older loved one.
The reasons are many, but one is that these fellows are starved for love, which goes sexual at the drop of a hint. Mind over matter has its uses, we can’t just go with the flow. But warmth of relationship is something most (almost all? all?) people need, though not always genital. You just have to find it in the right places. You have to look for it in the right places. Go looking for it in the wrong places, you cause trouble.
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While we’re at it, yesterday’s Chi Trib story quoting the Colorado man had “he said,” but not to whom he said it. Not to the Trib, we presume. So to the Jesuits whom he called up about it? Which Jesuit or which office? And who told the Trib? I object strongly to this careless rendering.
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Oops. Re-examined the piece and found this at the end:
The man contacted the school Tuesday.
After receiving a phone call from a former student, the school notified the Cook County state’s attorney’s office and the Office of Victim Advocacy at the Chicago Province of the Society of Jesus and also referred the former student to the society’s Office of Victim Advocacy, according to a statement.
Still, whose statement? Worth saying, I think.