This is a speciality of the left. It’s guilt, as a Protestant minister told me years ago, “the gift that keeps on giving.”
The late Cardinal George of Chicago asked a TV-caster in his farewell press conference, “Why did you always ask me [as comment for a happening], ‘How do you feel?’ rather than ‘What do you think?'”
You gotta press the right buttons for some people. It’s how they operate and how they assume others operate.